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21st March 2011

Dedication Beyond Measure

By Joy Miranda – Pinay Sense

The theme for this imonth is about Christmas, so as you can see, most of the articles speak about the celebrations with accompanying pictures. In fact, all the pages are picture-packed that it almost appear like a photo album anymore (laughs)! Well, a picture speaks for itself, no need for more words, so be swayed by smiles of people in it. The recently concluded pre- Christmas party held at Navarino Wine Lodge last 27th November was a big blast for everyone especially so that they could not get enough of it thus another night out (which is less formal) is up tonight, 11th December, and was agreed to be held at Omorfos Kosmos this time. Before the year ends, the over all coordinator Ester Beatty offered her house to be the venue for a new year’s eve celebration with everybody bringing in their own foods and drinks! Party fever is very high and personally I felt so happy for everybody taking time out to celebrate the occasion but most especially doing it “the Filipino way”. Quoting Philippine Honorary Consul Shemaine Bushnell- Kyriakides in her brief message during the party, “For Foreigners who have not been to Philippines, Christmas is the best time to go… it’s very hard for a lot of Filipinos to be away from families… but this celebration will give a bit of a “taste of home.” Indeed, “a taste of home,” it is, this time of the year always reminds me of my roots. Adding to the event that night was the celebration of Tinig Pinoy’s 5th year existence in Cyprus courtesy of course by Politis. I gave certificates of appreciation to my staff, to an avid reader and to the publisher, Mr. Dionysis Dionisiou. I also made mention of the efforts of all those who had been part of it. Ester Beatty reluctantly received her certificate saying that she does not deserve such. In my speech I said that the perseverance of Tinig Pinoy can only be credited to those people who stood by me, walked beside me and acted along-side me. In all my years being the editor in chief, and with staff and contributors who come and go, I can only single out one person who NEVER leave me, nor turn her back on me, and who never deny any single favor that I asked especially for the sake of Tinig Pinoy, and that person is Ester Beatty. In fact, days ago she is not well, still we have Tinig Pinoy today because NO sickness can stop her dedication. She got up and did the encoding in my absence.

Simply, Christmas is giving and the spirit is seen everywhere, but the JOY of it is felt through the people who are so self-less enough to share their precious time, under any circumstance, on a daily basis. Lady Ester, I am truly humbled by your dedication which is beyond measure and your total commitment to community service. With people like you always aid me to understand what Christmas really is. Thank you and may your tribe increase! Merry Christmas everyone!

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21st March 2011

T.G.I.S. (Thank God It’s Sunday)

(Bato-Bato Sa Langit Adventures)

By Ate Syl – Tinig Pinoy

Life Is Good

I only have two hours to spend my Sunday and if ever lucky enough, I get the chance to go about shortly after the 8am Mass. Now that Christmas is just around the corner, I noticed that people are starting to feel the festive mood of the season for shops are already full of shoppers picking for some Christmas hangers, bits and pieces that give away the spirit of Christmas. While shopping downtown, I wandered into a small shop stuffed with shirts and other items all marked with the slogan “Life Is Good”. When I moved to the next shop, I saw a bunch of red foil balloon with the message “I Love You” streamed across in billowy script. A half smile registered on my face while thinking of those items. Sometimes we need to remind ourselves of those simple truth. When the work of earning a living, raising a family, maintaining health and fitness, and managing a relationship starts to overwhelm us, it is good to think about how small our part in the universe really is. While we obsess over our work, God quietly does His. He keeps the earth rotating, the planets revolving, and the seasons changing. Without any help from us, He makes the sun rise every morning and set every evening. Every night He changes the pattern of night lights in the sky. He turns out the light so we can sleep, and turns it on again so we can see to work and play. Without lifting a finger, we get to enjoy sunrises and sunsets. Every year the seasons change on schedule. We do not need to pray about it or tell God that it is time to send spring. All that He does reminds us that HE is good. (Acts 14:17). But what about if I bought one of those balloons with the message of LOVE but suddenly slid through my fingers and float away, and soon it was nothing more than a tiny red dot in the sky – finally, would just be a memory. Losing that balloon would remind me of the way love sometimes vanishes from our lives. Children rebel and distance themselves; spouses or loved ones desert; close friends stop calling. Have you watched love disappear from your life? Rest in God’s affection – His constant care will keep your heart safely secured. We should be thankful that God’s love is steady, it can sustain us when love here on earth drifts away. In fact, it is so reliable that Jesus invites us to abide in His love. He wants us to know that it is okay to settle in and get comfortable. Life will at times be difficult, often it is painful, and for now it is imperfect. But still LIFE IS GOOD, for in all these things nothing can separate us from God’s lavish expressions of love. (Rom. 8:39). “Thank You, loving Father, for the good gift of life. I thank You and praise You for all You do so that I can enjoy so much. And most of all thank you Father for giving us your only son this season, this is the gift of lavish salvation – of all gifts, the greatest gift that you and I will ever receive.” He did not use a silvery box, or paper green or red; God laid His Christmas gift to me within a manger bed.

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21st March 2011

Our Road to Bethlehem

(By Johanna Bogbog- Sideview / Tinig Pinoy)

The year is nearly at its end so I have decided to declare a ‘time out’ to all controversial issues and write about the jolly tidings of Jesus Christ’s nativity, more particularly about Christmas. We are now at the period of Advent to which we must prepare ourselves for the coming of the Lord. Prophet Elijah and John the Baptist had been shouting: “prepare for the coming of the Savior”. And this is the basis of the Catholic Church in establishing the period of Advent with four Sundays before Christmas to give us time to ponder deeply on the birth of the Son of God then consequently cleanse ourselves from impurities to be worthy to receive Christ in our lives. But no matter how much we try to understand the Mystery of Advent, we fall short to grasp the meaning of it. Because the mystery of Advent is the mystery of God’s love to His people. In like manner, we can not understand why men die for one another which is contrary to the instinct of life preservation. Because we don’t understand the depth of their love. So if we don’t understand the workings of human love, how can we hope to understand Divine Love? All we have to do is to be grateful that God loves us so much and had sent His Son to redeem us from the darkness of sin. So what is really Christmas? As early as September, we hear Christmas carols being aired in radio and television stations. People all over the world start planning how to celebrate Christmas and things begin to pile one atop another: where to spend the holidays; what gifts to buy for whom; when to decorate; who will be invited to what party and when and where to hold the party; and a lot more preparations to celebrate Christmas. So much so that we fail to prepare our spiritual life because our concentration is focused on the material side of it. Although god wanted us to enjoy life, we must put the spiritual side of it first. “I have come so they might have life and enjoy it more abundantly”. This is God’s own words. He is not a selfish God. He created all things and wanted us to enjoy His creation but we must put things in order. The material side of things must be in communion with the spiritual side for only in this manner can we truly appreciate and enjoy the true meaning of Christmas. Advent is our road to Bethlehem where the heart of Christmas is. Where the birth of Christianity is. And like the three kings who traveled far to bring their gifts to the child Jesus, we must likewise tread this road. But what gifts shall we bring? Advent is a time to ponder how we lived the past year. Our gifts shall be our good deeds which we must offer in all humbleness. Many of us like to announce to the whole world when we do something good and we like to let the whole world know what we are and what we have. We can not wait for others to appreciate and recognize what we did. We forgot that when we boast on our good deeds, we lost their spiritual value and still fall short on the glory of God because we already received the reward here on earth. Christmas must be a home coming where everybody is the same: no rich or poor, no king or servant; no white or black. We wonder why the baby Jesus and not the Jesus as King became the integral part of every christmas decoration, It is because Christmas is the period for rebirth. We must be like a child who is innocent, devoid of corruption, of pride, of selfishness, of disobedience, of anger and hate. On Christmas day, we come to heart of Christianity. The impossible became possible. But we also came upon the mystery of the Holy Trinity in which the One God became Three but remain One. So let us take our road to Bethlehem then join the angels in celebrating the birth of our Savior and welcome Him with a clean mind and heart. Let us make a holy place in our lives. We must surrender ourselves and look deeply into our hearts and analyze what keeps us apart from the happiness and enjoyment of the Christmas festivities. For only when we are free from any worries, from anger and hate, from envy and greed, can we be filled with the love, joy, peace, and hope that Christmas brings.

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21st March 2011

Religion as against Desperation
 Religion is a very powerful tool, it can be used for good and for bad causes. It can and often be used to clean our guilt. We visit the church, take communion, smile at everyone, and the majority come out feeling good in themselves and try to become a better person. But there are few who do everything of the above, and come out of the church and carry on doing the same old thing.that they do (jealousy, greed, arrogance, selfishness, the list is endless). The Catholic Church is very powerful all over the world, more so in the Philippines. We all know the strict rules and ethical pressures that are put upon the people. Whenever you agree or disagree, certain people with money, political and star status seem to have a separate religion from the rest of us. So, what is my point? There are some Filipinos who when they go abroad seem to leave their beliefs behind. Am talking about the Filipina who get pregnant just so they can stay in this country. They do not seem to care about the future, the future of the child, or their life here in Cyprus. How many single mothers can you see walking down Ledra? I have written about this subject before, but am sorry I have to say yet again, you have to be a very selfish person to have a baby so you can obtain a visa, especially if you already have a family in the Philippines. When speaking recently to one Filipina who had a three year old child and no asawa or boyfriend, I asked her why she wanted to stay in Cyprus. “to make a better life kuya, ” she said. My reply to her was why she was living in a flat occupied by three other Filipinas, and not in her own flat? The truth is, she cannot afford a decent flat of her own because she cannot get a good job, and if she does who will look after the child. Nursery is expensive, then when the child has to go to school, there are books to provide, clothes, computer, the list goes on. And what is one of the worse things about this, the girl or boy grows up without a father. We are all sinners everyone of us, and if you say you are not a sinner then you have just sinned by saying that. Kneeling in church and praying the rosary is all very well. But please do not leave the church and look for future boy friends or husbands and do everything sinful to get a visa. Is it worth it? I don’t know, ask the ones who are dragging their offspring around with them as an excess baggage. Ask the ones who marry a European, and the husbands spend their time sitting outside the discount store getting drunk. Get your priorities right, the grass is not always greener on the other side of the hill, in fact most of the time your life is the same but in a different location. (Pambos Kourtoullos)
Chief Editor’s reply:
Let us put it this way. Getting pregnant has NOTHING TO DO with getting a visa. This misconception always make me puke. But I disagree, to say that Filipinas who opted to have “unwanted pregnancies” seemed to have thrown their beliefs to the bin, is yet another sort of miscondeption, Mr Kourtoullos. There is one thin line between what you believe in and what you desire for: it is the reality of the current situation right in front of these women, and the reality, obviously, is that, there is no job for them back in the Philippines, so the bottomline always is Survival for today, (forget about the thing called future when you need to eat today!). Neither I agree of these women resorting to getting preggy just to be able to stay a BIT more, work here and there, earn regularly as possible, at the expense of another new baby to feed, but let us try not to condemn nor judge their decision. Even if they might be confused, or desperate for that matter, yet I do not think that in the long run they can not find some more ways to stay in line. Filipinas are “madiskarte” and believe me, that is because no matter what happens, they keep their faith with them. Yes, I noticed that you keep on writing about this topic, but you see, I am sure that those who are into such a situation have just shrugged their shoulders off, and perhaps, most of them might want to say, “Mind your own business, fellow!”, so I guess it is about time to find another interesting subject to write.

 

 

 
 

 

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21st March 2011

Hello folks! It has been awhile that I did not have any post here (almost a year!) As usual, blame it to having lacked of time if that is an acceptable excuse to you (lol)! Admittedly, I have been so engrossed at Facebook lately and I have lots of wall posts there which are worthy to repost here (and yes, will really manage to find time for that too!)

To make up for almost a year- long absence, gonna post few pieces here from people who accompany me at Tinig Pinoy news… old articles that are still worth posting here. Hope you would enjoy reading them.

Christmas: Pinoy-style

By PR Curammeng

What makes our Christmas celebration unforgettable? It is what most immigrants miss the most about the Philippines. Is it our early start in decorating our houses as early as September? Is it our commitment to attend midnight masses as much as we can? Or is it our puto bumbong and bibingka? Not every household can afford to have fancy lanterns to decorate their houses, and yet, those families are still filled with excitement and anticipation. Not everybody can attend all of the nine midnight masses and yet when they do, they enjoyed it. We look forward for Christmas because it is the time of year that families and friends gather together in such festive mood. During the holiday season, you will see people smiling more as they go about their task may it be the usual one or in preparation for the noche buena. The children carolling remind us of what we used to be, as children ourselves. It is such a joy to reminisce how you and your friends collect the metal caps of soft drinks, flatten them with hammer and string them to a wire, looped big enough for the hand to grasp it; an instant musical instrument. Drums are fashioned out of empty cans. Who can forget the midnight mass? Groups of friends come, young and old, the nine days all planned out who will pick up whom along the way or where to meet before walking to church. After the mass, parishioners flock the puto bumbong and bibingka stands. The refreshing aroma of banana leaves getting cooked with the bibingka fills the air. Coffee or hot chocolate complement both and help to warm oneself from the chilly night. When the midnight masses were successfully attended without fail, wishes are made. Rich or poor, noche buena is the highlight in every household. At exactly 12 midnight, family members gather to share the specially prepared meal. It is the time for us to be more thankful for all the blessings we received. And, it is the time for us to give back. I guess this is the main reason why we are more generous to give alms to street children or even families. The gift-giving part is what children look forward to. For the very young, it does not matter if the gift is expensive or not, as long as it is wrapped. Reaping the wrapper off the gift is what matters to them and the number of gifts too. Christmas is the time families, relatives and friends reconnect. It is the time of year that differences are set aside and let bygones be bygones. It is also the time everything possible is done to make the occasion special to the children and to the young at heart. Christmas means differently to everyone, but to most, it brings happiness and hope. More importantly, it means being with the family whom you love and loves you back unconditionally. Merry Christmas to all!

 

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