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Pontiac grand prix

23rd February 2009

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This is the car recently acquired by a very special person whom I will forever be grateful to. I just cant help featuring it here because few years back while doing his MBA studies I remembered he was as scared as hell each time he saw me sitting in the driver’s seat of a friend’s car specially when I started the engine, he nervously, right away jumped out of the car. Congrats “idi”…now you have your own car. hmmm… am just so happy hearing about your achievements coming from your dedication and sincerity at work…thank you for staying just “you” to me. I know you will be surprised to see this but this is the only way that I can shout to the world how grateful I am for meeting you. You helped in restoring the once delapidated spirit and wounded pride in me, and Im forever be thankful for this wonderful gift, this domain you made for me bestowing your great faith in my writing capability. It is such a pleasure to be told that in the past my influence in your life had contributed greatly to what you are today. Actually it was the other way around. You have turned every aspect of my life positively. Thank you! Wherever you are, please stay healthy, and wish you all the happiness you deserve in your life.

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The Job We Do Best

23rd February 2009

By Joy B. Miranda

Editor in Chief, Tinig Pinoy-Politis

Some text messages I received last month were from a Filipina named Maricel who claimed to have a cyst in her ovary which pain bothers her tremendously. The medical doctor suggested for an operation, but according to her, employers opposed to it because once operated, she can not work for a month and it is going to be difficult for them. Maricel further stated in her messages that she is due to fly back to the Philippines this March and the doctor insisted that she should be operated at least a month before her flight, and the cost should not be an issue as she can use her insurance. Adamant to have the operation here in Cyprus because she can not afford it in the Philippines, she asked for an advice on what to do with her employers and at the same time afraid if something wrong might happen during or after she goes under the knife. TP staff Beth Fernandez forwarded her messages to the office of the Labor Attache and as of this writing, we have not heard from her anymore. We hope wherever she, her problem with her cyst is solved.
I was horrified by the reason of why the employers of Maricel did not agree for her operation. They were worried more that nobody could be doing the house chores than seeing their worker safe and healthy. They care more of the house than of the person. Oh my, how can they be so heartless?
We can see countless different problems of domestic workers against their respective employers, but most of these issues were kept hidden from everybody. I reckoned that indeed domestic helpers are vulnerable to neglect, exploitation and abuse as many people regard this work as absolutely trash, and those who are in it are nothing by socio-economic sense. I am really bored scribbling about domestic helper job but I am writing a bit again because of a recent chat I had with a lady that I don’t know. I was doing my research one day when suddenly somebody popped up in my yahoo messenger. She said she is from Arizona, USA and she just happened to see my website. Then she started saying that she liked reading its content and that I am doing a great job. After a while she asked what I am really doing in Cyprus for a livelihood. I plainly said, “I earn my paycheck as a house keeper.� And she answered, “What? You as well is a maid? Hahaha! Such a waste of your time!�
Sensing the sarcastic tone of her words, my ears got burned! I told her in a marathon manner, “Excuse me but I don’t see anything wrong with being a maid and correction, I don’t waste my valuable time doing so. I am happy doing this job and I am proud of it. What is waste for me is talking to someone like you whose thinking is way too narrow to understand that in life, there is no big or small jobs, it is the contentment and happiness in what you do that make sense.� She might have noticed my returned sarcasm that she apologized and said goodbye.

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An OFW happily doing her job in Cyprus

 

I am practically annoyed each time I hear people say “So you are a writer, and what are you doing here?� It is like, they look up to me upon knowing that I am a writer then afterward would raise an eyebrow and decrease their respect just because I do house work. It is this downward mentality that prevents growth and progress and demoralizes one’s capability to enjoy the tasks of being a domestic worker.
Many of us I know have experienced working in different fields. Back in our country we are teachers, midwives, nurses, office and government workers, sales ladies, etcetera, but now we are here abroad as maids…tell me, are you ashamed of that? I hope not. If someone asks about what kind of job you have, will you deny it? I hope not too. I ended my glamorous job as a practicing journalist in the Philippines because contrary to what I call “the downward mentality� of the majority, and whether you agree or not, housekeeping is as glamorous as many other jobs and I am promoting it to the highest level. We should not be ashamed rather be proud about it because it is what we do best.  It is important that you are happy about it. There is always a breath of dissatisfaction money-wise due to its low pay, never the less continue to take pride in it because you are doing a great job. As I end this, here is another nugget of wisdom by Martin Luther King Jr. to contemplate: “If you are called to be a street sweeper, sweep streets even as Michaelangelo painted, or Beethoven composed music, or Shakespeare wrote poetry. Sweep streets so well that all the hosts of heaven and earth will pause to say, ah, here lived a great sweeper who did his job well.�
 

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Racism and Discrimination of Migrants in Cyprus

23rd February 2009

(Courtesy by KISA)

 

 

Employment The employment policy of the ministry of Labour and Social Insurance

Encourages discrimination & exploitation;

 

The discrimination against migrants in employment is also evident by the fact that they do not have the right to freely change employers. They can change employers only in case of labour dispute and after permission by the Labour Disputes Committee or if they obtain a Release Agreement by their employer. This lead to the super exploitation of migrants workers. In 2007, after the implementation of the Long Term Residence Directive and in an attempt to prevent migrants from obtaining the long term residence status,  Release Agreement is valid only if signed at least one year prior to the expiration of date of their employment contracts, a condition, which also applies to their right to change employer in case of labour dispute. Thus, the report of any violation of their working rights became impractical.

The right to social insurance is another issue, which involves discrimination against migrants. Although migrants are required to contribute to the Social Insurance Fund, they can not benefit from nearly none of the rights and or benefits arising from it.

The above define migrants position and role in the economy of Cyprus as the most important source of cheap labour , enhancing their vulnerability.

Migrants, mainly third countries nationals. Working accidents are more frequent among migrant s than Cypriot, since they are exposed to health & safety risks at work. The outcomes of the investigations that are launched on the conditions under which working accidents occur are usually not unknown. Gender is important factor when examining issues concerning racism and discrimination. Female migrants are even more vulnerable to racism and discrimination than male migrants, since they are subjected to different kinds of discrimination: they suffer discrimination because of their gender, their nationality, the color of their skin, and their financial conditions. The majority of third-country migrant women are constrained to work as domestic workers, as a fact, which necessarily leads to the loss of any other identity they have. Domestic workers live in their employer’s house and thus, the competent authorities cannot perform  any monitoring or inspection of working, health and safety conditions.

The employment contracts of domestic workers are derived from the Civil Registry & Migration Department, instead of the Ministry of Labour and Social Insurance, and they contain very restrictive, discriminatory and exploitative terms and conditions of employment, such as forbiddance to join a trade union, longer working hours than the average, etc. in 2007, the salary of domestic workers was raised from £150/ 256 euro (since 1990) to £ 165/ 282euro, whilst the minimum wage was £ 409/699euro. In addition, their contracts are often breached by their employers, who frequently exercise both physical and psychological violence against them, including verbal and physical violence, sexual harassment and rape.  The situation is of course much worse for victims of trafficking. Although the Trafficking Law was reviewed in July 2007 prohibiting all forms of trafficking, the policies of the government did not change at all and visa for  Artistes were still issued by the Migration Department. Cyprus is used as a transit point of women to be trafficked elsewhere. In a report, 54 women complained to the authorities and relevant charges were pressed. There were also 105 arrest of persons engaged in cases linked to prostitution and sexual exploitation and 78 of them concerned particularly trafficking charges. According to the police data, 90 cases were brought to court, while 15 other cases were still being investigated at the end of 2007. Although the police acknowledged 54 trafficking victims, the Social Welfare Services dealt with 87 cases of victims of trafficking.

 

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First Love Never Dies

23rd February 2009

By Johanna Bogbog,

Tinig Pinoy- “Sideview” 
Love is in the air as Valentines Day is nearly approaching. Hence, I would like to tackle this topic which I had promised before. To give credence to the above title, I interviewed some friends which I greatly enjoyed. So let’s find out if first love really never dies.
Josie, now 46 with one daughter, was only 17 when he met Brian who was 22 years old. She fell in love with him and their relationship blossomed but after five years, they went on their separate ways and both married somebody else. However, Josie said, until now she still feel as if a thousand butterflies are flapping in her stomach every time she sees Brian around.
Loise, now 39 with two children, was 16 years old when he met Carl. They were studying in the same high school where Loise was the muse of one basketball team while Carl was a player of another team. They formally met at the victory ball in which Carl was awarded as the MVP. They became friends and Loise fell head over heels in love with him. However, she was so disappointed when Carl went to Manila and their communication stopped. After some years, she got married while Carl went abroad. 15 years later, they met again and Loise said, her heart stopped beating for a moment. She acknowledge that until now, she still have a special feeling towards Carl.
Gretchen, now 42 with four children, was in college when she met her first love, who disappointingly without her knowledge was her cousin. The guy became her inspiration and she was totally mesmerized by his good looks and gentleman ways so much so that she made the first move. However, the guy knew of her feelings and his blood relationship with her so he diplomatically discouraged whatever she was feeling towards him. Nevertheless, Gretchen said that she still have a soft spot towards the guy until now.
Dipa, a Sri Lankan who is now 48 years old,  met her first love while working in an office. Hassan was her dream man and they shared three years of a happy relationship. However, she was forced to marry another guy whom her parents chose for her. But after 20 years of marriage, she still did not learn to love her husband, her first love is still occupying a big part of her heart. She said that she will probably go to her grave with her first love still in her heart.
Moris, a 45 year-old Briton, met his first love while traveling in an airplane. They exchanged telephone numbers and went their separate destinations. After a year without contacting each other, they accidentally met in a restaurant where they only exchanged greetings. But after a month, Moris contacted her and invited her for dinner. Their relationship bloomed and after two years, they were engaged to get married. Unfortunately, Vanessa died in a car accident a month before the wedding. Now, Moris is still single. He said he will only marry if he meets a girl who is as lovely and sweet as Vanessa.
Now, my friends, am sure your question is, how about you? Do you believe that first love never dies? My answer is a resounding YES!  I’ll be 45 next week, and I had my first love at 22. Late, isn’t it? Because I had been looking for the perfect guy that resembles the macho characters in the romance novels that I had been reading: tall, fair, and ruggedly handsome with broad shoulders, deep set eyes, sharp nose, and sensual mouth; a knight in shining armour. I was taking up my Masteral studies on Business Administration when one afternoon, I was the earliest arrival in class, I sat at the first seat of the second row with the entrance behind me when suddenly, the brightness of the room had gone slightly dimmed. I looked at the door and, omigod! there he is, straight from the pages of the novel that I was reading. Time stood still and I couldn’t breath. I totally fell in love at first sight. Well, looking back, I think I fell in love before I met him. And the semester passed in a bliss. Unfortunately, he had vices I didn’t like and I ended up marrying his look-alike which I found out later to be his cousin. But I must admit, and I get to hate myself because everytime I meet him and our eyes look straight at each other, I kind of  blush to my embarrassment. This, my friends, only mean that first love really never dies.
Our first love will always be a part of our lives. Some of us may have had a happy experience, some may have had a damaging one. Nevertheless, it gave us the chance to know how it is to be in love. And I am sure all of us learned something that helped shaped our lives. I also know some people who married their  first loves. Some jokingly said that they missed the experience of loving somebody else, hence the side affairs. Anyway, it is good to stay in love because love brightens our lives and bridges heaven and hell.
Happy Valentine’s month everyone!

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